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September 10, 2026
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Rhea Seehorn (Revisit): I Set My Best Friend Up With My Ex-Husband

Rhea Seehorn is up for an Emmy this weekend for her extraordinary performance in Pluribus, so we're bringing back one of our most personal, most-loved episodes. Because to Mary Alice, Rhea isn't just an award-winning actress. She's her best friend, and the stepmom to her two boys.

In this conversation, Mary Alice and Rhea tell the wild (and very true) story of how they met, and how Mary Alice ended up setting Rhea up with her own ex-husband. They get honest about building a thriving blended family over twelve years, co-parenting after divorce, dating in your 30s, the female friendships that hold everything up, and the health scare a dozen doctors waved off as "probably hormonal" before Rhea pushed for a real answer. She closes with five pieces of hard-won advice every woman needs to hear, starting with "you're already enough."

Whatever happens on Emmy night, we could not be prouder of her.

A companion to our episode with parenting coach Betsy Brown Braun. Follow SheMD and share this with a woman navigating divorce, dating, or a blended family of her own. @SheMDPodcast ·shemdpodcast.com

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About the Guest

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Rhea Seehorn is an Actress and Director. In May 2014, Seehorn was cast in the Breaking Bad spin-off prequel series Better Call Saul (2015–2022). Seehorn is widely known as Kim Wexler, a lawyer and the eventual love interest of the titular Jimmy McGill (Bob Odenkirk). The series premiered on February 8, 2015. For her role as Kim, Seehorn has received widespread critical acclaim, won two Satellite Awards for Best Supporting Actress – Series, Miniseries or Television Film, one Saturn Award for Best Supporting Actress on Television out of two nominations, and received a nomination for the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series, two nominations for the Critics' Choice Television Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Drama Series and two for the Television Critics Association Award for Individual Achievement in Drama.

Rhea Seehorn grew up in Virginia Beach, and has lived in a variety of places from Arizona to Japan. She has gone by her middle name Rhea since childhood, having felt a "disassociation" with the name Debbie from an early age. Seehorn graduated with a degree in drama and visual arts, which she used to further develop her craft in Washington, D.C., where she starred in numerous productions inclusive of Arena Stage and the Woolly Mammoth Theatre Company, of which she remains a member. Seehorn then transitioned to Manhattan, where she performed with Playwrights Horizons and made her Broadway debut in Neil Simon’s 45 Seconds from Broadway. Shortly thereafter, she was cast as a series regular on the comedy series I’m With Her opposite Teri Polo, David Sutcliffe, and Danny Comden.

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Key Timestamps

00:00 Welcome to SHE MD Podcast

04:24 Rhea’s Dating Advice

08:17 Choosing Not to Have Biological Children

11:52 Building a Blended Family

16:45 Friendship, Confidence & Supporting Other Women

18:38 The Hardest Part of a Blended Family

21:37 Missing Moments With Your Kids

23:17 Becoming a “Bonus Mom”

24:52 Balancing Motherhood & a Career

27:09 How Rhea Seehorn Became an Actress

30:00 Building a Career in Hollywood

33:42 Better Call Saul & Career-Defining Roles

37:18 Rhea’s Career, Family & Life Today

40:15 Final Thoughts

Key Takeaways

  • How to co-parent without chaos: Whether biological or step-parent, your love and presence matter.
  • Making a blended family work: boundaries, respect, and lots of grace. Accept that blended families require flexibility and compromise.
  • Women need to stop apologizing for ambition: Working moms can be great role models by pursuing their passions.
  • Speak up at the doctor’s office: Push for proper medical care, especially when facing dismissive responses.
  • Open communication: Express needs and boundaries to strengthen relationships.