Actress and model Delilah Hamlin and software engineer Hayley Pearson didn’t know each other before walking into the hospital—but after receiving endometriosis surgery from Dr. A on the same day, they met in recovery and instantly connected over their shared struggles. In this episode, they open up about their diagnosis, their surgeries, their healing journeys, and the friendship that grew from one unexpected moment.
This episode breaks down what endometriosis really is—clear, accessible, and grounded in real medical insight. We walk through the most common warning signs, the subtle symptoms people often overlook, and how to know when it’s time to advocate for yourself and ask for help. If you’ve ever wondered whether your pain is “normal,” this conversation is a must-listen.


What You’ll Learn
How to recognize symptoms of endometriosis and avoid misdiagnosis
The importance of finding an experienced specialist for surgery
Fertility preservation and egg count testing considerations
How chronic inflammation impacts ovarian reserve
Key Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and episode overview
05:00 Fear, self-doubt, and uncertainty before diagnosis
10:00 Acne, bloating, hormonal imbalance, and painful periods
15:00 Why women’s pain is dismissed and misdiagnosed
20:00 Finding skilled endometriosis surgeons
25:00 Surgery vs. hormonal suppression
30:00 Chronic inflammation and ovarian reserve
35:00 Painful sex and its impact on relationships
40:00 Autoimmune risk and systemic inflammation
45:00 Self-advocacy, research, and navigating the healthcare system
50:00 Final reflections, hope, and encouragement
Key Takeaways
Women’s pain is often dismissed, making self-advocacy and research essential
Painful sex and severe menstrual symptoms can signal endometriosis, not “normal” cramps
Early diagnosis and surgery by an experienced specialist can protect fertility
Chronic inflammation from endometriosis can affect ovarian reserve and overall reproductive health
Endometriosis is linked to autoimmune risks, highlighting the need for comprehensive care
Links
Delilah Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/delilahbelle/?hl=en
Endometriosis Foundation of America: https://www.endofound.org
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists: https://www.acog.org